pursuing growth vs hating yourself
A year or so ago, I was trapped in a loop of ‘self-growth’. Constantly trying to be better, but never making progress. I kept thinking I just need to be better. Just do better. The issue with a mindset like that is it leads to a lot of self-loathing. Hating yourself because you’re not good enough for yourself. There’s nothing wrong with trying to be a better person, and growth is always good, but you need to find a good balance between striving for personal growth, and accepting yourself as a person. ...